I know we've all had our time to grieve over the losses we've had over the years. Last year, I was shocked to hear that Mistafopa had passed and his life had really only begun. I was looking through some of my old folders, when I happened to find an AIM conversation I had with him in early November of 2005, when I had that girl problem with Brenda. Here it is in all its splendor, though some words will appear different due to the swearing filter. But still...Steven, as I sometimes called him, was a great friend and a divine supporter through the dramstic times I've had in the RPGM community, and though he's gone, I really hope he rests in peace.
NeonMarley00: hi
NeonMarley00: i got ur link
NeonMarley00: that was plain terrible
Mistaf0pa: What?
Mistaf0pa: The woman who hung herself?
NeonMarley00: yeah
NeonMarley00: exactly
Mistaf0pa: Yeah
NeonMarley00: so, how have u been
Mistaf0pa: Pretty good. I f*cked my back up nicely so i haven't been able to move around much which has sucked
NeonMarley00: im sorry, man
Mistaf0pa: went to the doctor, nothing seriously wrong, got some percocet and muscle relaxants but i'm already out and my back is still f*cked
NeonMarley00: for how long
Mistaf0pa: Its been atleast 10 days
NeonMarley00: jesus
Mistaf0pa: how bout you
NeonMarley00: ive...had better days
NeonMarley00: ive been trying to get in touch with thie girl since yesterday
NeonMarley00: we...kind of had a falling out
NeonMarley00: and i was trying to get in touch with her today after class
NeonMarley00: but she was a no-show
Mistaf0pa: what happened
NeonMarley00: i did something that jeopardized the platonic relationship
NeonMarley00: like, she was laying down in my chairs
NeonMarley00: and i asked her if she wanted a hickey
NeonMarley00: (she has a bf)
NeonMarley00: and...ive been lyging to myself
NeonMarley00: saying id merely be happy with the friendship
NeonMarley00: but...i wanted something more with her
Mistaf0pa: well what happened
NeonMarley00: what do you mean?
Mistaf0pa: after you said that
NeonMarley00: like..
NeonMarley00: she asked me why i said it, knowing she had a bf
NeonMarley00: she said what i had said was f*cked up
NeonMarley00: and really goes out of bounds in our friendship
NeonMarley00: she believed i was the type of guy who valued a friendship
Mistaf0pa: then what happened
NeonMarley00: there was an awkward silence
NeonMarley00: then she just said she was going to class
NeonMarley00: usually, she would ask me to walk her there
NeonMarley00: she didnt this time
NeonMarley00: and she didnt come to my lit class today (were in that class together)
Mistaf0pa: good riddance
NeonMarley00: really
Mistaf0pa: Yeah
NeonMarley00: well, i was going to tell her today
Mistaf0pa: why she have be such a drama queen about it?
Mistaf0pa: f*ck her
NeonMarley00: that it would be best that we simply be acquaintances
Mistaf0pa: pfft that's what you already are
Mistaf0pa: her boyfriend gets to nail her while you listen to her whine and b*tch about sh*t
NeonMarley00: she wasnt whining about anything
NeonMarley00: infact, she loves her bf
NeonMarley00: and ive talked to her bf as well; hes pretty cool
Mistaf0pa: so cool you want to steal his chick away from him
NeonMarley00: basically yeah
NeonMarley00: but...not gonna work
NeonMarley00: so...i guess she's trying to avoid me, probablu
Mistaf0pa: I say who cares, you want to nail her, and you're not going to get into a chicks pants goin about it that way
NeonMarley00: yeah
NeonMarley00: so, let it go
NeonMarley00: im trying
Mistaf0pa: don't let it go, just leave it on the burner and pick up a new game while you improve your skills hitting on drunk chicks or something
NeonMarley00: lol
NeonMarley00: i dont like hitting on drunk chicks
Mistaf0pa: you don't have to
Mistaf0pa: it's just to improve you skill
NeonMarley00: i see
Mistaf0pa: you don't even have to f*ck em
Mistaf0pa: just put yourself around easier women
Mistaf0pa: and watch how the game works
NeonMarley00: hmmm
NeonMarley00: sounds logical
Mistaf0pa: and eventually that chick you like will break up with her boy friend, and need a rebound
Mistaf0pa: and there you'll be, fresh from some practice
NeonMarley00: i highly doubt it
NeonMarley00: i mean, she really loves him
Mistaf0pa: trust me
Mistaf0pa: how long have they been goin out
Mistaf0pa: she white or black rich or poor?
Mistaf0pa: is he rich?
Mistaf0pa: only reason a woman will stay with a man is if she's taken care of better than she is by herself or at home, and the only reason a guy stays with a chick is if he wants to get her pregnant.
Mistaf0pa: that's simplified anthropology of course but I'd bet money those 2 fall into that category and will soon break up
NeonMarley00: shes white
NeonMarley00: her bf's mother spoils her with gifts
Mistaf0pa: then what I said applies
Mistaf0pa: black culture is different, but I figured you liked white chicks
NeonMarley00: the bf constantly reassures her thats shes beautiful
Mistaf0pa: since you hang out at rpg maker pavilion
NeonMarley00: ah.
NeonMarley00: "used to" that is
Mistaf0pa: Black women don't care as much about material success as much as knowing that they have a MAN to take care of them
Mistaf0pa: white women don't care as much about that macho thing like blacks and mexicans
NeonMarley00: how come
Mistaf0pa: just cultural
Mistaf0pa: how we're raised
NeonMarley00: arent there a few who are raised outside the box
Mistaf0pa: of course
NeonMarley00: are those the ones i should go after
Mistaf0pa: I dunno, from what I can tell most white chicks wanna f*ck black guys.
NeonMarley00: the limbido
NeonMarley00: or what?
NeonMarley00: i think it depends more about his potential in bed
Mistaf0pa: Black is trendy right now, maybe
NeonMarley00: mainstream
NeonMarley00: hip hop
NeonMarley00: i mean they want thug
NeonMarley00: or country...like dirty south country
NeonMarley00: not....white country, no offense
Mistaf0pa: plus the whole stereotype of being animalistic and being hung like horses
NeonMarley00: yeah
Mistaf0pa: none taken, country is offensive to me too =b
Mistaf0pa: but you could play to that. Take on that air of I take what I want. Chicks respond to that.
Mistaf0pa: You just have to find that line between suave and creepy
Mistaf0pa: which is difficult
NeonMarley00: because...
Mistaf0pa: you come off creepy and they just feel like you're a serial killer rapist instead of a sex machine
Mistaf0pa: which is why it helps to practice on drunk chicks youll never see again
NeonMarley00: heh
Mistaf0pa: or even just people you see in the supermarket
Mistaf0pa: get all dressed up like you don't even belong in that neighborhood so you feel superior and go shopping as usual then just start small conversations with chicks
Mistaf0pa: I learnd that from someone older than me when I was 16
NeonMarley00: dress...formal
Mistaf0pa: people respond to you differently when they feel inferior to you, you immediately have the upper hand
Mistaf0pa: it makes your confience come naturally and easily
NeonMarley00: never really been a superior figure before
NeonMarley00: unless u consider i was patrol leader in boy scouts
NeonMarley00: but that sh*t didnt last
Mistaf0pa: if you doubt it, just keep an eye out for the way people are dressed/made up versus how they communicate their dominance/confidence
NeonMarley00: how do u think they do it
Mistaf0pa: who
Mistaf0pa: do what?
NeonMarley00: how do they show the ladies they're confident
NeonMarley00: what words do they say
Mistaf0pa: who?
Mistaf0pa: It's not in the words
NeonMarley00: actions?
Mistaf0pa: thats why its difficult to learn
NeonMarley00: i see
Mistaf0pa: if it was just a secret password women would have no defenses and they would just be f*ck puppets for our amusement but they're not they're intelligent
Mistaf0pa: they have to get their nut too, and since they don't get their nut from random sex in large quantities they have to have excellent bullsh*t detectors
NeonMarley00: oh yeah
NeonMarley00: that last part makes a lot of sense
Mistaf0pa: so you gotta learn how to break that down use it to your advantage, you have to come off as the real thing even though you're just some guy who wants to nail her but can't offer all the benefits of being the best possible male she can get
Mistaf0pa: and it is possible
Mistaf0pa: you just have to learn how the system works like any other system everything has rules and boundaries
NeonMarley00: im basically the underdog, correct?
Mistaf0pa: not necessarily, you're just new to the game
Mistaf0pa: you're at level 1
Mistaf0pa: level 1s can't slay a level 7 no matter how hard they try
NeonMarley00: u sure they're arent any negative levels
Mistaf0pa: maybe if you're like missing an eye and a burn victim and your dick is 1/2 inch long then you're in the negatives
Mistaf0pa: but even they can get laid
NeonMarley00: oh no
Mistaf0pa: the plan doesn't work overnight, infact it takes a long time to get to that point where getting laid often is common, but it's not like you're going to be getting laid in that time anyway
NeonMarley00: my dick is longer than that
NeonMarley00: right
NeonMarley00: question
NeonMarley00: did u ever feel scared to do something u thought was right in a relation to s girl?
Mistaf0pa:
http://www.pickupguide.com/and watch the movie swingers
Mistaf0pa: scared? I've been terrified.
NeonMarley00: thats how i feel at this moment
NeonMarley00: seriosuly
Mistaf0pa: its from getting yourself to a point where you don't know what to do, and you're not ready to do anything even though you really care about her and you know your immaturity and incompetance is gonna make you lose her
Mistaf0pa: and the reality is you're going to lose her it's just life, it sucks but it happens to all of us.
NeonMarley00: the best of us
NeonMarley00: or all of us
Mistaf0pa: all of us
Mistaf0pa: every human being
Mistaf0pa: we first fall in love and its a feeling so strong thatits' without comparison or measure but we're not ready or skilled enough to make it work so we f*ck it up, and we spend the rest of our lives with an open wound
Mistaf0pa: Romeo & Juliet doesn't happen
NeonMarley00: yeah
NeonMarley00: i would f*cking kill myself over some sh*t
Mistaf0pa: would or wouldnt
NeonMarley00: woudlnt
NeonMarley00: sorry
NeonMarley00: would not
Mistaf0pa: yeah I didn't think that sounded like you
NeonMarley00: lol, yeah
NeonMarley00: thanks for catching me on that
Mistaf0pa: but the point is, the sooner you can let that romanticism go the sooner you'll get laid
NeonMarley00: so..dont tell the girl i like her
Mistaf0pa: on the contrary
Mistaf0pa: just don't go into that mode of putting one girl on a pedestal
Mistaf0pa: play the field
Mistaf0pa: tell 30 girls you like them
Mistaf0pa: put them into a b and c classes
NeonMarley00: 30?
Mistaf0pa: yes
NeonMarley00: wow
Mistaf0pa: trust me you'll be lucky to get 1 yes
Mistaf0pa: especially as a levle 1
NeonMarley00: i see
Mistaf0pa: try to get their phone numbers
Mistaf0pa: don't say you like them
Mistaf0pa: just start a conversation and end it with getting their number
Mistaf0pa: if you feel like you can't just abort
NeonMarley00: wouldnt they want to know if i like them
NeonMarley00: what do i say when that happens
Mistaf0pa: yes, but they like to be teased
Mistaf0pa: they like not knowing it f*cks with them
Mistaf0pa: with men it's jut frustrating with women it's intriguing
NeonMarley00: so, what do i say if they ask if i like them
NeonMarley00: say....no
NeonMarley00: or what?
Mistaf0pa: also notice something that's imperfect about them
Mistaf0pa: but don't be mean, just notice it out loud,
NeonMarley00: ok.
Mistaf0pa: if they do something like that it's called a sh*t test
NeonMarley00: which is..
Mistaf0pa: those are hard, its when they throw you a loaded question
Mistaf0pa: basically you just throw it back at them
Mistaf0pa: you'd like that wouldn't you?
Mistaf0pa: say that
Mistaf0pa: then change the conversation quickly
NeonMarley00: oooh
Mistaf0pa: but say it jokingly
Mistaf0pa: but not self deprecating, never demean yourself
NeonMarley00: i see
Mistaf0pa: it will come naturally once you see it in action
Mistaf0pa: youll see
Mistaf0pa: your body will take over
Mistaf0pa: your unconscious, your balls will take the helm =b
NeonMarley00: like
NeonMarley00: it will become second nature?
Mistaf0pa: and you'll know you're not just being some dickless friend to her you're actually eliciting attractiong
Mistaf0pa: yes second nature
Mistaf0pa: its in all men
Mistaf0pa: the feeling may scare you at first, because its new and her reactions will be new to you, but its okay
NeonMarley00: u just have to find it
Mistaf0pa: just go with it
NeonMarley00: ok
Mistaf0pa: eventually you'll know you're gonna close the deal.
Mistaf0pa: I gotta go get winter clothes.
Mistaf0pa: Gotta go.
NeonMarley00: later
NeonMarley00: thanks man
Mistaf0pa: later
Mistaf0pa: no prob
Mistaf0pa signed off at 5:09:21 PM
Fopa...rest in peace.
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