It's today. Today, something is gonna change. I'm gonna talk to her tonight at a party. I have no idea what the result will be. Something will happen; either a bad thing or a good thing, but SOMETHING will change.

I've been waiting for this moment for 1 month and a half. She's the most beautiful person I have ever met. And today's the chance I've been setting up for over a month.

I'm gonna make 2 promises here.
First one. If I manage to get her, I'll go up the 250-step stairs of my street, on my knees.
Second. In order to symbolize whatever's gonna change tonight, I'm showing up here in a different style tomorrow.





Wish me good luck, please.

Hope things go well, skyscrapper.

much luck ~~~~~~~ <positive>__> you're going to change your avvy/sig?

Go get 'er tiger!

Good luck. Remember, when you're talking to her AND at the end of the day, is that she's only a woman. Don't treat her like a goddess. Treat her like you would treat anyone who you didn't have a crush on.

A Proposal?!

I'd hope and pray that things turn out good, but you've likely already asked.

f*cked up.




She told me she didn't want to stay with anyone, and didn't even know what she was gonna do about this other guy who madly loves her.
"Too confusing, I don't know, not now, I don't know, seriously, I don't know. No, not now, I don't want nothing today."
That was around midnight.


At about 1:30, she was kissing the other guy.

I left at 5:30, and she was still kissing the other guy.














[Edit: I did swear. Sorry. The occasion asked for it.]

No offense, but I had a feeling this was going to happen (and I mean this in the nicest way possible).

You're putting too much value on this girl, man. Like Ixzion said, she's just another woman.

What you need to do is realise that you shouldn't be trying to win her over. She should be. Try to be fun and loosen up! Play hard to get! Tease her a little! Girls love that!

If you're all over this girl, she's going to be like "Great, another guy that likes me."

Anyway, I hope I didn't sound too harsh. It's just that from the way you wrote about her, it sounded like you were head over heels for her. Learn from this mistake, and you'll find another girl.

^ I know what you mean. I had this in mind from the very beginning, I've seen many guys break their faces because of that attitude.

But I AM mad about her, and there's nothing I can do now about it. I prepared what I was gonna say to her in order not to act like a 'in-love fool'. And I didn't sound like one.

But things went wrong anyway, y'know.

And I'm NOT giving up on her that easily.

Well, I'm glad to hear that you weren't like that. Just bad luck on your part, I guess.

Try again, and continue to act detached from her. If all else fails, just move on. There will be plenty more girls who will be much happier to be with you.

Run away from this girl right now!

She's already proven herself to be a damned, dirty lying whore to you already. "I'm confused, I don't know what I want, etc." It is BULLSH*T.

She knows what she wants, and it's not you. She would rather lie to you to save face than tell you the truth to your face, like a real woman should.

She's shown her true colors: she a f*cking flake.

And don't put on any stupid act to get a b*tch. Men are not clowns for women's amusement, nor are we free therapists, backup dicks (just friends), or anything else.

On the other hand, if you just want to f*ck her, then it's easy. Just lie to her. Play with her emotions. Act disinterested. Then she'll be all over you like a rabbit. Then, to break it off with her, act like the perfect boyfriend (it'll run girls away fast).

Of course, you may not believe me. You're free to disregard my information. Every man has to make their own choices.

I almost laughed out loud when I read your post, Ix ^^

Perhaps what you're saying is right. But I know her very well. We are very intimate friends for 1 year now, and I know her well enough to say — she IS the most totally damn confused girl of all times.

But you have a very good point there. I HATE masks. They just don't work. She agreed with me we'd better telling each other what we think, with the uttermost sincerity. I trust her. That's the problem; we're very good friends and I really trust her.

Yeah, it's sad =( But I'm like that.

I am truly sorry, and can only pray that you get over it as soon as possible. There is no way anyone can lead a happy life bound like that.

And I bet it hurts... maybe not much, but at least a little. That's what happens to the majority of people... They try to get into a relationship, it doesn't work, someone gets hurt. And those three things happen over and over again.

You know what. People do it to themselves. The second you quit trying to pick someone up, the sooner you'll start feeling better. There is one truth in the matter: Any single person proves that relationship don't work. If they did, they wouldn't be single... now would they?

Most women don't know what they really want. They say one thing, but end up doing another thing. It's because they're mostly controlled by emotions.

With us guys, it's like when we say we're going to do something, we do it. But with women, they do whatever their emotions call for.

It's really not their fault. It's just the way they're born. From what I read, the girl you're talking about really does sound nice, and I can see why you're friends. It's just women can get tangled with emotion and then don't really know what to do.

I hope things work out for you, whether you hitch up with her or not.

These must be the guys that really are from mars.

Well, of course, this doesn't apply to all guys and all girls. It's just the norm. But if you take the time to look, you'll see.

Uh, the men are just as bad as the women. And they aren't BORN that way... they just don't give a damn. It's a sick cycle... but what can you do, eh?

I'm quite... impressed. I mean, I'm totally amazed. By myself and how I'm reacting to all of this.

I suddenly don't care anymore. She stayed with him one more time, and I don't care. She's on a 5-day trip with him this week, and I don't care. I got terribly rejected saturday, and I REALLY don't care anymore.

If I'm gonna like a girl like this, I decided with myself that it wouldn't be a reason to suffer. That's what liking someone is: not a reason to suffer, a reason to be happy.

When I think about her, I'm happy. Terribly happy, and feel really light. Specially when I was there talking to her saturday, her face 20cm away from mine, smiling. Can't take the picture off my mind. I know, and I feel, that thing saturday, as bad as it was, was not a definite 'no'.

I'm trying again next weekend or as soon as I can. No need to lose hair for that. Life's good, and liking someone like that is HEALTHY. At least for me, it's being more healthy than anything I've ever done.

Damn. Just damn.

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