uuuuuuuh this isnt real advice, this is advice thats been said for years from miilions of people. this is advice taken from books and people. REAL advice is something that isnt derived from books and people. REAL love advice is supposed to be new not cliched. So post new advice and not advice thats been used for years. this is cliched, but hey i cant stop you people from listining to kitty. so go right ahead and get advice from her.

you shouldn't be rude she just giving advice sure what isn't cliché now a days.

Anyway for my question is Should I steal something for a girl to show my love? (if she's in to that)

Please don't spam this thread. Theres a reason why its not in the
hammer.

Yes your right. I'm not saying anything new. But there is a lot
to know. And talking to me is cheaper and faster then getting it
out of a book. Plus this gives everyone a chance to give there
own ideas as well. If you don't like this thread then don't post in
it.

Ok so we are not getting of topic? Anyone else want to chat
about dating?

im not rude..........im brutally honest

ok kitty here is a question

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I will have to get back to you on that one. Any one else?

Also how can you tell when someone is not using you?

It more or less depends on what you like. However, this is one hell of a love triangle. What I would suggest is you go for the girl you like. As for the girl that likes you, just find a way to put her down nicely... if possible. Brutal honesty is killer when it involves women's emotions. Plus, it lowers the chance of payback later on.

You hear that Duelpro? Thats what this thread is about. Everyone
giving questions and answers. I like that one Kratos..

Boo berry, Give me a min. to think about your question.

I hear you..................anyone could of given that same answer in given time

If you don't have the time don't do the crime. If love is
really in the air you can do other things to make her happy.
I would have a chat with her about stealing things. Because
if you go to jail the only sex your going to get is "gay" sex. And
I don't think you want that.

You can tell when a girl is not using you by how often
she wants to spend time with you. If she wants to spend
hours on the phone with you. Or wants to see you every day.
Also if shes asking you for money that is not a good sign.
Its good to treat a girl out. But if shes looking for cash in hand.
"gold digger" And if she asks you for a car ride where you just
pick her up and drop her off. "gold digger"

Well that part won't happen considering I'm a tall guy and the other guy will end up castrated.

lol ill have nightmares tonight

Disclaimer: I am in no way shape or form a psychiatrist or psychologist. All the information contained in the following text is purely my own thoughts and opinions and should not be followed unless you have seriously thought it out and agree with what I have to say.



Pay someone. No one said that this thread could not be about temporary love.



You really can't tell if somone is using you until you actually feel used. In a relationship, sometimes you tend to overlook the feelings of being used, and just enjoy the company of that person to the point where you just accept letting certain things happen. Kitty uses me all the time, but I don't care, I love her, and that comes with the territory of being married. I understood this when I made my commitment. Not everyone is going to be self sufficient. You will all use someone and be used by that person too. It's all part of what we call relationship building.

Now when you enter into a relationship, you need to understand that you're not supposed to be in it for YOU. You've got to be in it for the other person. That person will be seeking help from you as the boyfriend or girlfriend. A relationship will be made up of a strong line of memories and good times that you've had together. If you feel that the "USING" is taking it's toll on the good times, and is affecting the relationship, then something needs to be said and acted upon. Sometimes it's better to let go, but if you care enough about the person, you'll really overlook any "USING" that they may do. You'll address it, hope that they understand how you feel, and work from there. There really is no quick fix for the situation once you feel like you've been used, but talking with the individual that you feel wronged you always helps.



No one should ever feel like they have to go to jail over something stupid like stealing for a girl. No judge in their right mind will discriminate petty puppy love theft with shoplifting. Either way the law will see it as illegal and fines and possible jail time will occur. If you never actually see the law about shoplifting, but get caught by store, that too is just as uncool as being thrown in the back of a paddy wagon on national TV. I say it's uncool because chances are real good that your "target" girl that you're trying to steal for to show your love, will probably have moved on to a bigger and badder thief. WRONG CROWD, and you really shouldn't strive to impress someone like her. Especially if it means marring your life record with something like robbery.

I have about 10 years age over you, and believe me, I've seen some petty women in my years. I've seen some of my own friends do some stupid sh*t and get caught for it, and I've also seen their girls go date someone else while their original man was in the slammer. You've got to be a really good thief in order to keep her and the stakes keep going up because the "rush" is like a drug, eventually it'll be a bank after you've been together 5 years or so. Save yourself the heartache and the jail time. Not worth it.



Honestly, in this the best admission I believe is a silent one. If you feel comfortable enough with a girl to start dating her, and if she feels the same way, the question really never has to be asked. Look deeply into her eyes and smile. Get lost in her gaze. A hug with a small kiss on the side of a girls neck could give her chills and smile. Once you're in her personal space bubble, your object is to keep her trusting you. So make her feel like she can trust you. Don't go booby grabbing, thats not a good way to keep a relationship going unless she puts your hand there. If you do it on your own, you could ruin the work of a whole evening of expensive dinners, movies and flowers. Speaking of flowers, it's a nice touch to let her know that you care enough to bring her gifts. It makes her feel special. Silent vs Verbal... definately in my book. Words don't always come out the way you want them to, but silence is golden.



You women have an intelligence network that rivals the C.I.A. itself. If the F.B.I. and the C.I.A. didn't have men in it, I believe we wouldn't even need computers to network information. Somehow if a man violates or wrongs a woman in Arizona, he is labeled by some unknown force making it possible for every other woman that he crosses to automatically know that he is a loser. But on a more serious note, you'd really have to know where he comes from, who his friends are, and how he was raised. Once you know his background, you'll understand more about what he's trying to do in your relationship. If a guy is in a relationship for nothing more than sex, chances are REAL good that he's got a history of broken hearts that he's left behind. Ask around... someone is bound to know someone else. Even in a large city like New York, there are people that are infamous and have reputations... Read bathroom grafitti... if you see someones name up there with negative stuff, write back... if you get a response, you've got yourself an unofficial pen pal and a good source of information about the guy. Wierd thoughts, but valid I would think...

Be diffrent. Show your love with gifts!

Love doesn't exist. It's just an illusion, a smokescreen. You believe you feel it, and the other person uses it to their advantage then screw you the f*ck over when all's said and done. I say, f*ck love, f*ck relationships, f*ck all that. It's a bunch of bullsh*t.

Did something happen to you?

Apparently.

Let me guess you were dating a girl that you were in love with, she apparently pretended to say I love you back. She use's you for some months she has a boyfriend on the side who probably knows you. Anyway she dumped you and said she never loved you. I don't have that much info on what happened just an assumption

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