Hello, It seems that being I'm a 26 year old female and
married. I'm getting a lot of questions. I think it would be
best, if we can all share our ideas on how to win some hearts.

These ideas should be for dating men and women.
We can also use links from the web. Like, "dear abby,"
and other helpful topics.

Someone ask me a question and I will see if I can find any web
info on it.

Anyone else can feel free to give advice as well.

Lets share our ideas.


[quote]Why you’d avoid making idle talk in hopes of thinking of something to say
/ Men's Guide to Conversation / Chatting-Up Women / Casual Talk / Why you’d avoid making idle talk in hopes of thinking of something to say
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The advantage of socially successful men is in having the knowledge about making a casual talk, and flirtatious approach. Those skills make you interesting and boisterous man in a females eyes, an interesting company everyone likes to be in. However none trained himself for social romantic behavior, so most men rely on their own instincts.

Successful men act relaxed around girls and make themselves open to conversation. So how do you relax around girls and get yourself open to casual friendship?

Don't Make Flirtatious Approach Too Complicated

You need to prepare in advance to lead casual and informal conversation. Don’t rely on improvisation or plain luck.

Have you prepared set of steps that will guarantee you success as man? Sure everyone wants to be noticed in a crowd.
Examine this list and see if you think you have all the essential skills:

1. Know how to quickly think up topic for conversation?


2. Have a plan for opening conversation with an informal topic?


3. Put together conversation around a question or a statement?


So, let's evaluate all-important steps one by one!

1. How To Quickly Think Up Topic For Conversation?


Just try talking about something – “how about the new movie hitâ€

How do I get laid within 40 days?

I can try to find something for that. The number 1 way I know off the top of my head is to just tell a girl that you love her. I can see what else I can find.

I can tell you how to get laid in one day.

1. Find a gullible girl.
2. Lie your ass off to her about everything, including money, car, and everything else that most women say aren't important, but really are.
2a. Make sure to downplay her looks (jokingly) a bit. Most women are used to being told they're pretty, so not doing that makes you "different".
3. At the end of the night, tell her that you've never felt this way about anyone and that you want this date to end with something special.
4. f*ck her.

Now getting into a real relationship is a different story.

But I have a question.

Sometimes, I notice girls smiling at me and winking at me. However, they never make a move. How can I make a girl make the first move on me without doing anything?

Lovely tips on getting laid, Ixz. I must use it.

Ok, I tried looking for the above topic. Most of what I see, people
are tring to sell you books.

Here are some of my own tips.

Tell her that you love her. If you can get to a kiss, then your not
far from the rest. Always tell her how good she looks. Her eyes,
her hair. "You must get her to trust you."
You can get very good advice from talking to gay men.
The gays can be your best friends on this. They seem to
know women better then women know them selves.
If you can find out what love song she likes. You can
make it "your" love song to eachother. Then when you
play it, you can try to make your move.
Getting her drunk or high works too.
This is the best I can do on my own for this. All women respond
diffrent, to diffrent things.

How do I get a one night stand without a stalker at the end.

Ok this one is hard. I know Im going to find nothing on the web about
this.

The problem is that, most women do not make the first move. I admit.
When I met my husband. I helped with the whole "asking out thing"
Its not the lady thing to do. Its like asking "why don't most men take
up arts in crafts?" Its not very manly.

Women flert to get you to go over to them. When a woman winks
she wants you to "walk over." But look out. If shes with some friends
they might just be tring to mess with your head. Try to meet the girl
when shes by her self.



Thats easy. Just tell her your back with your ex and shes about
to pop a baby. Theres lots of lies to get you out of that.

Where's the best place to meet women?

Tell me what type of girl your looking for.
Then I can tell you where to look.

A girl with some of my interest. I will say gamer girls are very rare to find here or an anime fan. Well I would say a lady in the streets and a freak in the sheets lol. But seriously someone's into me and not crazy.

If your looking for crazy. You can find them at bars, clubs,
any where that there is loud music. You can even try strip clubs,
and adult stores. Out side of that, picking
up people at there jobs is the best. I know, because I have
done it. Its very easy to talk to girls/boys at there jobs. For these simple
reasons.

1. They are stuck there all day. So its not as easy for them
to walk away.
2. Most jobs are dull. Women would love to take a brake to
talk to someone.
3. If there working then they have money.
4. If there working and have money, they have a car.
5. Its easy to flert with someone who is tring to make
you a customer.

If all else fails use the phone dating services.

phone dating aint for me

I would try the other things I listed then.

What would be a good admission of love in order to seal the deal and start dating a girl?

What would be a good admission of love? Can you please be more
clear on this. Im not sure what you mean.

If you mean "how to say you love the girl without scaring the girl off."

First you have to really know if the girl likes you.
It would be the same thing if some 500pd girl had
the hots for you and she wants you and you dont
want her.
If you think she does like you. Then you have to go out
of your way to show her, you like her too. Make her
smile with out making a fool of your self. Buy her a drink.
You should spend at least 1 week of solid time with her before
telling her that you love her. Go to the movies and out to dinner.
Wine, dine and 6*. But rember the words of love should come
before the sex.

Ok I have a question for the MEN! How does a woman
know that a man really loves her for her. Or he just wants
the sex?

Admission of love, professing your love, whatever. Basically telling her what lengths you'd go through for her and all that bullsh*t.

I added to my last post look above your post.

Well, wining isn't something I can legally do, you see. And going to a Baptist University makes that difficult. Plus, any alcoholic beverage can kiss my ass.

Anyway, for your question. It's never easy to tell when a guy loves a girl for who she is or if he just wants sex. I think it's how he acts and how he talks and his history. Not always 100%, but it's what I've observed. Of course just because I talk about sex and sh*t doesn't mean that's what I'm going after a girl for.

The big thing that will help any dating is that. Find
out what she likes to do for fun. Then ask her to do
it with you. Men do the leading and the woman do
the following. You ask the questions, You listen to
her answers. Then you put what she wants into
play. She likes camping? Take her camping. You
have to do what she wants to get what you want.
And during the camp trip or what ever shes enjoying.
You find a place to hug her. Kiss her, then get busy.

Rember this quote" Men feel love with there eyes,
women feel love with there ears."

That just means that, A man will see a hot chick and
hes all hot and ready. A women needs to hear mushy
words like love and your sweet, honey, darling, ext.
To get in the mood.